The key to treating premature ejaculation is to clarify its causes. Obviously, the causes of premature ejaculation vary among different individuals. But the author roughly divides them into three types: psychological stimulation (visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory), physiological stimulation (genital contact), and the habit of rapid ejaculation developed through long-term masturbation.
Psychological Stimulation
In daily life, people often receive various types of sexual stimulation signals: attractive and attractive opposite sex on the street, sexy and enticing attire, charming smiles, open and revealing clothing, and eye-catching hot and spicy pictures and images and so on.
This can also explain why some people surrender before entering, often because the brain is too sensitive to visual, auditory, and sexual stimuli!
Some common manifestations of psychological hypersensitivity include:
- It is easy to get an erection, and hugging a girlfriend can lead to an erection. The ejaculation threshold is low, and those who have poor tolerance for sexual stimulation may have prostate fluid flowing out.
- Extracorporeal ejaculation, psychologically sensitive individuals may want to ejaculate or even ejaculate before being inserted during foreplay.
- When watching AV movies, mild patients may have prostate fluid flowing, while severe patients may feel a strong desire to ejaculate, even before masturbation. Of course, if you ejaculate after a brief period of masturbation, it also indicates that your psychological sensitivity is excessive.
- Sensitive to sound, many patients react that if their girlfriend doesn’t make a sound, they can persist for a long time. If their girlfriend makes a sound, they quickly surrender and cannot control their ejaculation.
- Seeing your girlfriend naked, hearing her shy voice, your genital being held by her … then you will lose control.
Physiological Stimulation
Some men are quite sensitive. If they are covered or partially covered by the foreskin for a long time, the areas covered will have a particularly strong response to external stimuli. At this time, even if they rub their hands against the coronal sulcus, they will feel very itchy and unbearable, let alone actual sexual intercourse. This is a typical physiological sensitivity.
The main reason is that during the period of physical development, there is no habit of exposing the glans in a timely manner. When the genitalia is in a relaxed state, the glans is wrapped in the foreskin, and only after the genitalia is erect can the glans be slightly exposed. Therefore, the genitalia is easily hard, and when it becomes hard, it is particularly sensitive. As long as there is a small stimulus, the sensitivity is particularly high, and the tolerance is poor.
For example, male A needs to be stimulated 100 times to reach the ejaculation threshold, while male B, due to his particularly sensitive glans, only needs to be stimulated 10 times to reach the ejaculation threshold. So A’s tolerance is much stronger than B’s.
There is another common situation: having previously suffered from balanitis or infection of the glans, nerve damage during surgical treatment, newly grown tissue becoming very sensitive, with poor tolerance, leading to premature ejaculation. After injury, the newly grown epithelial tissue is very tender flesh, and the tolerance during actual sexual intercourse is poor! For males with poor physiological tolerance, physiological desensitization tolerance training should be conducted to gradually improve the tolerance of the glans and improve its tolerance to stimuli.
For this type of premature ejaculation patient, delay spray, delay cream, delay wipe … can significantly improve your condition.
The Habit of Rapid Ejaculation Developed through Long-term Masturbation
Many young men, when they are young and ignorant, may learn to masturbate after watching AV movies. At the beginning, masturbation may still be relatively normal, and it can last for more than ten minutes. Later on, they may find masturbation too boring and think about pursuing excitement, such as sexual fantasies.
In fact, the purpose of many people masturbating is to quickly enjoy the pleasure of those last few seconds.
Some people are very nervous because they have just started masturbating, afraid that their family or friends will know, afraid of being discovered and embarrassed, and often secretly masturbate. In this tense situation, they hope to complete ejaculation quickly.
Pursuing rapid ejaculation multiple times in such a tense atmosphere will increase the stimulation of the reproductive organs, resulting in a large amount of stimulation signals being transmitted to the brain center in a short period of time, forcing the brain center to quickly process and convert them, generating more sexual excitement!
In the long run, the brain center will gradually become increasingly sensitive to external sexual stimuli through this unintentional training!
Finally, every time you receive some relatively small sexual stimulation, it can quickly generate sexual excitement, leading to your ability to tolerate sexual stimulation becoming worse and worse, forming a rapid ejaculation reflex arc, so the intercourse time becomes shorter and shorter.
And that’s why many men ejaculate when they hear a woman’s moans.
Conclusion
In this blog, we categorize the causes of premature ejaculation into three types: psychological stimulation, physiological stimulation, and the habit of rapid ejaculation developed through long-term masturbation. Then we have conducted in-depth exploration and analysis for each cause. I hope this blog can help you understand the root cause of your premature ejaculation, and only after knowing the cause can you receive targeted treatment and improve your condition.
For example, if you experience premature ejaculation due to excessive sensitivity of the glans, applying a delay spray can effectively prolong your sexual intercourse time. But if you experience premature ejaculation due to psychological sensitivity, then delay spray/cream/wipe are of no help to you.
